Reading: Middlemarch and Dancing Shoes Listening: How Green Was My Valley. And I did walk to work today Moving: Walked five miles |
12 August 2002: Still Leaving"When you told me you were leaving me I did not know what to say but my eyes told no lies and my tears fell in a silent way." Haitch gave me a few things as she packed: a purple corduroy hat, a slate blue embroidered box containing scented candles, and three Shoes books, Ballet, Dancing, and Theater. Also a dear card whose note reminded me of things I meant to give her, including one item that would do better along a road trip than in a care package. As I scampered about getting ready to meet everyone for dinner and goodbye, this is what I compiled:
At Benny's, Haitch's until-last-Saturday roommate, The Other H, who is now Hilp, looked at the cd's song list. She had happened across "The Truth about Cats and Dogs" and watched it through to the end (RDC made a sympathetic noise) to learn who sang "Angel Mine." The Cowboy Junkies. You will be assimilated. I told Hilp how Haitch has resisted the force of my will ever since their pathetic sound at Fiddler's Green ruined Lilith Fair, and how I converted my sister and how my sister converted her own roommate. Haitch was desperate, pleading of RDC, "You hate the Cowboy Junkies, don't you?" No, he loves them. He just hates most of my other music, except Peter Gabriel. (It's a good thing for him that he likes those two. And if he doesn't listen to Kate Bush on his own he doesn't run screaming from the house. Quite.) However, I told Hilp, I have my priorities. A Junkies email on 25 July listed that their sole Denver date in 2002 would be the same night as Haitch's post-defense party but not even that induced me to cancel on her. The obsession continues. Amazon has a skewed sense of my musical preferences because I have never bought a Junkies album thence. But anyway checking release dates for Lay It Down (1996, as I thought) and Black-Eyed Man (1992, really? I bought it fresh?), I read some comments. Someone discovered the Junkies through a gig on SNL and luckily gave the year, 1989. Okay, I could record all SNL episodes, but I don't want to. I want to find the episode number for the 18 February 1989 show and make Tivo look for only that one. Comedy Central and NBC don't help; IMDb doesn't even list SNL among Leslie Nielsen's notable TV appearances; and the web is, dare I say it, not as useful as it could be. Oh well. I can sift among upcoming episodes, but Comedy Central repeats of SNL are usual cut to an hour, aren't they? At a bar after Benny's, I ordered drinks. No really, it's that momentous. I have never ordered anything more than a single soda from a bar before. This time I ordered four shots of Wild Turkey, three Newcastles, two Bailey's & Kahlua, and a water (I shared Haitch's water). The bartender asked me if I wanted to keep the tab open, and I said sure but still waited around to sign my debit receipt. I don't get out much. I had first bounced up to the bar to ask why its logo was No Squirrels. I was kneeling on a stool chatting to the bartender (whose only answer was that they didn't like squirrely people) when a man two seats down commented that I was the tallest person in the place. I wasn't excessively tempted to tell this story, only somewhat. I wondered briefly whether he was just being friendly or actually being pick-uppy; I was grinning, not at him but at my four-year-old self; I had my answer of friendly or pick-uppy when he said something about how if I was going to keep smiling like that, he would do something or other that I tuned out. Speaking of my nursery school, the Nut Lady (who lives on the same street) is in a nursing home. Poor old fruitloop. |
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